"Lovely scolding - only amuse." Who has not heard this saying justifying any quarrel between people loving each other? Indeed, it is difficult to find a family in which spouses would not at least once dig up an ax of war, do not sharpen knives and cocked verbal skirmishes. When two decide to live together (whether it’s a wedding or a common-law marriage), they least think about the fact that one day the idyll may come to an end. But after some time, inevitably, some disadvantages of one of the partners emerge, views that the other does not share. And at one point a scandal fire breaks out.
To find out how often quarrels arise in the families of Russian women - that was the purpose of the survey conducted by the Women's Opinion portal.
Happy families in which spouses do not know what a scandal is, were in the minority - only 12.8%. The rest of family squabbles occur with varying degrees of regularity. Most of this majority (30.5%) admit that the quarrels did not pass them by, but they happen so rarely that respondents cannot say exactly when and for what reason the latter was. This is the correct approach to the scandal: let off steam, make up and forget, without loading the memory with the negative emotions and disagreements that once divorced spouses in different rooms.
About once a month, 18.4% of women surveyed quarrel, once a week - 21.1%. There are families in which scandals happen almost every day - 17.2% chose this option. Although the question involuntarily arises here, what in this case unites people, except for the stamp in the passport?
It is noteworthy that many women choose the same tactics during a quarrel: "I’m leaving the kitchen and barking from there, and my husband from another room also mutters something, but I don’t hear, because I blather louder than him." As a result, after such "negotiations", the spouses usually meet again in one room (the smaller the apartment, the sooner they will be there) and eventually reconciled.
As can be seen from the results of the survey, very often a scandal is an integral part of life together. Do not be afraid of this: when the spouses know the measure and quickly "move away", an old saying proclaims the truth.
The survey involved 3370 women from 116 cities of Russia aged 20 to 45 years.
